Would you like to give your opinion on what Asian men and women need to date better and generally have better lives?

Without giving too much away, we are creating something new and exciting specifically for Asians of all ethnicity, ages, and gender (i.e Chinese, Japanese, Indian, Korean, etc…) that will help Asians find success in dating and understand more of who you are and what’s holding you back from living the life you deserve to have.

Why? Because this has never been done before and there is nothing like this available anywhere. It’s about time.

Thus, we are holding two focus groups for Asian men and women regarding these special projects in the evening, at 7pm on August 17^th and August 24^th at 119 West Pender.

Can you help us out and make it? As a way to thank you, we’ll give you a free ticket to our upcoming Singles Appreciation BBQ on August 28^th and of course, by helping us, you’ll be helping yourselves.

—Details—

What: Asian Dating and Personal Development Focus Groups
Who: Man Meets Woman and Happy Sexy You
Where: 119 West Pender St (by Beatty)
When: Tuesday evenings, , August 17th and 24th
Cost: No cost, in fact we’ll give you a free ticket to our upcoming Singles Appreciation BBQ on August 28^th

How to RSVP: Please send an email to sexygirl@happysexyyou.com or call 778-999-5094 to RSVP you and your friends.

PS: You don’t have to attend both as they will be the same.

~Thank You!

Best regards,

Happy Sexy You! – Be Beautiful…Find a Man
778.999.5094
sexygirl@happysexyyou.com
www.happysexyyou.com

It’s time for another Summer Barbeque!

We are having a Man Meets Woman and Happy Sexy You Singles Appreciation BBQ at the end of Summer, on August 28th. This is designed as a singles mixer as we have both a large male and female database and we frequently get asked to match men and women with each other.

Are you interested in being matched with someone? If so, please go here.

We’ve had many BBQ’s in the past, both where we invited people to bring your own food to BBQ and where we provided it. This time we’ll go with the latter and will have hotdogs and hamburgers ready for you there. Everyone is invited and there is a guarantee that there will be many fine, attractive men women at Kits Beach that weekend.

If you want to come, look for us at the far north end of the beach (past the volleyball area on the beach, SEE MAP BELOW). Feel free to email me an RSVP if you like and I’ll give you better directions on how to find us.

—Details below—

We’re looking for help with:

• Volunteer helpers, to set up, cook, clean up
• Someone to go and secure the area for us at 9:30am
• a large tent, fold out canopy would be nice
• more BBQs and cooking tools
• Propane tanks
• 1 – 2 more Tables (for the BBQs)
• Buns, Chips, Bowls
• Drinks, drinks, drinks!
• BBQ sauce, Ketchup, Mustard, Relish
• Garbage can and bags

Notes:
*Bring your folding Chair, Sunglasses, Sunscreen, etc.,…
*If it’s Raining, the BBQ will be canceled and re-scheduled TBA
*Again, if you can help in the morning with the setting and organization, please email me ASAP.

***Map of where we will be***
Here is where we will be be on Saturday, August 28th, some of us will arrive early to secure a spot for us.

Best,

Ronald Lee
www.manmeetswoman.com
778-999-5094 coach@manmeetswoman.com
…follow me on twitter! http://twitter.com/RonaldMMW

• Do you sometimes find it hard to speak to strangers, or the opposite sex?
• Do you wish there was a way for you to improve your conversation skills?
• Do you think practicing conversation in a safe, productive environment will help?

This Saturday, August 14th, we are doing something different upon tremendous request from our clients.

We are holding another open Conversation Practice Class from 2pm to 3:30pm. We hold these everyone so often as they are a great way for you to brush up on your conversation skills, learn how to make fast and deep connections with the people you meet and gain confidence in your ability to connect with and attract the opposite sex.

Interested in coming?

—Details—

What: Conversation Practice Class for Men and Women
Who: Man Meets Woman and Happy Sexy You
Where: 119 West Pender St (by Beatty)
When: Saturday, August 14th, 2010 at 2pm
Cost: $15 to cover the cost of the room, pay at the door.

The New Year is here and many of us are as busy and active as ever. This is the time of year where is it customary to make New Years resolutions with the intention of achieving each and every last one of them. Resolutions (i.e. goal setting) are especially important if you want to improve your relationships and experiences with men and find that special someone, particularly in Vancouver.

So here is what you need to know in terms of keeping your resolutions and achieving your goals.

You may have heard this before, but I cannot reiterate enough the value and importance of goal setting. You see, the most successful men and women of yesterday and today got there because they had a dream, a vision, a goal. It may have been something as deliberate and major as, “I will not settle until I meet, date, and marry my ideal woman,” to small milestones such as, “I want to learn how to have more men in my life” or “I want to get second and third dates with the men I meet”.

I personally use goal setting extensively and the first thing I find out from my private coaching clients are what they think their dating and relationship goals are. Proper goal setting is important because to do it right means that some thought about the overall scale and process of your dating is needed and that is a good thing. At some point, the pursuit of happiness (and not just happiness, but any worthy pursuit) becomes spiritual, but that’s a topic for a forthcoming post as well!

So without further adieu, here are some guidelines I use when I set goals:

Start your major goal setting at significant times during the year. The start of the year is an obvious time, but I also revisit and reassess my goals quarterly. I break apart everything that I have been doing and set new step goals to reach my overall goal at these times.

You need to have an overall goal for each pursuit in your life, be it business, health, or relationships. This goal can be as grand as you want and it should be just out of your reach, yet something you believe is possible. And you must believe in the goal, that it can be a reality for you. In the end, you may not reach your goal, but because you set the bar so high, you would have taken yourself further than you would have gone otherwise.

Having an overall goal which you feel positive about to strive for is important to your success. An example would be to never settle with a man you know you will not be happy with, to keep looking for your ideal man for a relationship.

Another example could be to develop your skills so that you can attract and get your most ideal guy, which has always eluded you in the past. Whatever your overall goal is, make it a lofty goal.

In the next part, we’ll talk specifically on how to do this using Step Goals.

In Part One of Setting Your Goals For the New Year and Throughout the Year we talked about how and why you need to set your goals at increments throughout the year and how to set high quality goals you can achieve.

Now let’s get into the nuts and bolts of doing this in a simple way that anyone can follow.

How you make your overall goal is through step goals. Think of step goals as progressions, mini-steps that you take that will lead you towards achieving your overall goal. These step goals are goals you feel you can achieve in a short or medium amount of time and will enable you to get closer to your overall goal by teaching you something, by making you good at something, or by allowing you to pass through certain benchmarks.

An example of this would be learning how to touch men when you first meet them in a way they like so you can progress into kissing. You can do it by an incidental touch, by holding onto their arm, or just by sitting close to them and looking at them a certain way.

Another example would be to learn how to initiate a conversation with someone new, hold his attention for more than three minutes, create curiosity and get him to ask you for your phone number to meet her for a second date. Step goals are goals that you set for yourself, that you make a point to achieve and can be as broken down and process oriented as needed.

Now, when you set goals, it is very important to set a schedule (time) for yourself, particularly for step goals. This will motivate you to do them and not give up, and it will feel really good each time you cross an item off your list. You need to set a specific time frame for all your goals, and you need to keep track of how you are doing with your goals (I make a weekly list of things I need to do to help me monitor).

Don’t make the goal too long, for example, for ten years, so you can be lazy about it, and conversely, don’t make them so short, like two weeks, making it next to impossible to achieve. Be realistic when setting your specific time constraints and stick to them.

Meeting men is not an easy skill to learn and the game is emotionally tough to play. If you don’t have goals, it’s too easy to get lost and give up.

Beware of the dangers that prevent you from reaching your goals. It’s ok to not achieve them in the time you want, as long as you don’t give up. The danger is in giving up and being lazy about it. Procrastination is your enemy. We all do it, but really shouldn’t.

Another danger is in your attitude towards yourself and to your desire and conviction to get parts of your life handled. A negative attitude and non-belief is the death of your success – they make achieving your goals so much harder. So if you want to have multiple male friends, but you are still hurt and bitter inside and take it out on other people…perhaps you should think about setting a goal to help yourself first before jumping too far ahead of yourself.

It’s tough to sometimes step outside of yourself and see how you are doing, that is why there is value to getting attraction coaching or lifestyle coaching to help you meet your goals. Alternatively, if you have a friend you really trust and know that he has taken care of where he wants to go in his life, then ask for his honest feedback about you and be prepared for the answer.

Comments?

Hi there!

This has been a great, productive year for us, on both personal and professional fronts.

As we prepare to make a number of announcements about our great plans for 2010, we’d like to thank everyone who helped us along the way by coming our courses and events and giving us feedback on how we can do better.

Thus, we’d like to invite you to come hang out with us at Moxies Bar and Grill (180 West Georgia, by Cambie, downtown Vancouver) next Wednesday, December 30th, from 6:30pm ’til 9pm.

We have the entire upstairs mezzanine area booked off where we’ll have dinner and drinks and talk to each other about our new years resolutions. We’ll also be joined in the festivities by men from our brother company, Man Meets Woman.

We have a few special things we have in store for you Wednesday night, from announcements to draws for entire courses in January. Come and have your best end of year ever and kick 2010 off with a bang.

You may RSVP by emailing us at sexygirl@happysexyyou.com.

What: Happy Sexy You Friends and Customer Appreciation Party
Who: Friends and clients of Man Meets Woman and Happy Sexy You
Where: Moxies, upstairs mezzanine, 180 West Georgia (by Cambie Street, Vancouver)
When: December 30th, 2009, 6:30pm
How to RSVP: email us at sexygirl@happysexyyou.com.

PS: Feel free to bring your friends.

Best regards,

Happy Sexy You! – Be Beautiful…Find a Man
778.999.5094, sexygirl@happysexyyou.com
www.happysexyyou.com

Dating in Vancouver, where men seem to either be unworthy or unavailable, is tough for the single woman. It’s doesn’t help that there are so many available women looking for love (in the wrong places) either. Your other single friends can’t seem to help as they’re in the same predicament as you.

Wouldn’t it be great to meet a hot, wonderful man to date this
Christmas and New Years?

If you are feeling lonely, lost, or frustrated, fear no more, we will help you.

The coaches at Happy Sexy You want you to get out and date again and we’re going to help you do exactly that this December 19^th and ^29th, 2009 (next weekend) with the…

The Dating Crash Course ~ Don’t Be Alone For the Holidays Edition

The Dating Crash Course (for women) is a two day bootcamp where we lead you through a process of self-discovery where you:

• Become aware of yourself and what you want in a relationship.
• Discern the type of men you are attracted to and what attracts you to them.
• Learn how to communicate and flirt with men.
• Discover how men think and how to approach dating and relationships.
• Learn the in’s & out’s and do’s & don’ts of dating.
• Get deep and thorough fashion and style advice on what to wear on your dates.

This will be a weekend you won’t forget and it will make all the difference in your dating life if you register now.

Go here for the course description http://www.happysexyyou.com/coaching-programs/dating-crash-course/

Hey my friends!

The response to the “Women Tell All ~ A Special Night Where Men Ask the Questions!” event this Wednesday, October 21st has been phenomenal. We’ve been bombarded by email and calls about this event. Have you RSVP’d yourself and your friends (do so immediately!)?

–> http://www.happysexyyou.com/about-happy-sexy-you/event-talk/

This is a chance for you to hear HONEST questions from men about their challenges when it comes to meeting and connecting with women for Sex, Love, and Relationships.They’ll be asking such questions as…

“How do women want to be seduced?”

“What is the best way to initiate sex?

“Does (whatever topic) work on women?”

And who will they be asking? Here are some of the people who will be presenting on Wednesday:

 

Two of the women speaking are Erika and Nicole. Both are experienced and insightful women with lots to share about dating. The panel discussion will be moderated by Gurpreet.

–> http://www.happysexyyou.com/about-happy-sexy-you/event-talk/

Although the panel is for the benefit of men, women are invited to attend, of course, to see if you agree or not agree with the advice being dished.

We’ll continue the night with a Social Mixer at the same venue, at Moxies restaurant (180 West Georgia). Come join us for drinks, food, and conversation with the female panelists and the audience to get to know one another and let the sparks fly.

What: Women Tell All ~ A Special Night Where Men Ask the Questions!
Who: This is a special event hosted by Man Meets Woman and Happy Sexy You.
Where: Moxies, 180 West Georgia (by Cambie Street)
When: October 21st, 7:15pm
Cost: no cost, but please bring cash for food and drinks after.

How to RSVP: Please RSVP you and your guest by emailing sexygirl@happysexyyou.com, at 778-999-5094, or at

–> http://www.happysexyyou.com/about-happy-sexy-you/event-talk/

Best regards,

Happy Sexy You! – Be Beautiful…Find a Man
778.999.5094, sexygirl@happysexyyou.com
www.happysexyyou.com

Do you know where the emotional support in my quest to meet “him” comes from? Ironically, it’s not from men, it’s from other women who are in the same mindset.

We’re not weak, we’re not desperate, but it would be nice to have a man who will show up and match us so we can share life’s adventures together – and unfortunately I can tell you firsthand how hard it is to find him in these turbulent dating times.

Luckily for me, I have a group of women who understand, as we are in the same situation – wanting to find the one. I constantly find that my source of power and support comes from my discussions (therapy? LOL) from other women and I always get so much more from meeting a group of 5 or 6 women for drinks.

That’s why I would like to invite you for drinks this Thursday, September 17th evening at Moxies (180 West Georgia) after the ” Dating as a Confident and Empowered Woman” event on September 17th.

The discussion is on how women can gain confidence in dating to find the “the one” between three companies, Happy Sexy You, Conversation Arts, and Pink and Grey Image Consulting and we’ll all be heading to Moxies afterwards (don’t know what time the discussion will end, 9-ish?).

If you would like to come, please RSVP for the discussion at http://www.happysexyyou.com/about-happy-sexy-you/event-talk/ be sure to introduce yourself to as many people in the room as you can!

*Drinks and light refreshments will be served.

MORE INFORMATION and how to RSVP: Please RSVP you and your guest by emailing sexygirl@happysexyyou.com or at http://www.happysexyyou.com.

Best regards,

Happy Sexy You! – Be Beautiful…Find a Man
778.999.5094, sexygirl@happysexyyou.com
www.happysexyyou.com

You Can Spot a Confident Woman by the Way She Walks into the Room

Some of the most important things a woman needs in her life are to have a healthy and genuine feminine confidence and self-esteem. Real Confidence is not something you can fake in the long run as other people can sense whether the confidence you’re projecting is real…or not.

How confident would you rate yourself in the areas of work, health, and relationships? If you found room for improvement, that you are not living at your fullest potential, consider that the happiness you could be having is passing you by – even now as you read this.

You can spot a confident woman just by the way she walks into a room.  She exudes personal power and self-respect.  Whether she is ‘pretty’ or not is irrelevant, she knows she is beautiful because all women are beautiful when they affirm they are. A confident woman is proud of who she is and where she came from and she has the courage to stand up for what she believes in.

When a confident woman exudes self-assurance and even sensuality, both men and women can’t help but to be attracted to her.

This woman can be and should be you.  The challenge is that if you aren’t already a confident and secure woman, particularly I dating, it can take you a long time, years even, for you to claim your power and get what you truly deserve in this world.

On September 17^th at 7:15pm, please join a panel of communication and relationship experts as they discuss the topic of “Becoming a Confident and Empowered Woman for Dating!”

Panel consists of:

• Agatha Kasprzak of Happy Sexy You (http://www.happysexyyou.com)
• Vincent Ng of Conversation Arts (http://www.conversationarts.com)
• Giovanni Amenta of Pink and Grey Image Consulting (http://www.pinkandgrey.ca)
• Moderated Sue Klinger Happy Sexy You (http://www.happysexyyou.com)

After the talk, you are invited to join us for drinks at Moxies Restaurant around the corner to further discuss confidence for dating and relationships.

Please mark this on your calendars and RSVP to attend.
*all proceeds to benefit the

What: Dating as a Confident and Empowered Woman
Who: Presented Happy Sexy You
Where: YWCA Hotel, 733 Beatty St (by Georgia)
When: September 17th, 7:15pm
Cost: $10, all proceeds to the Greater Vancouver Food Bank Society
How to RSVP: Please RSVP you and your guest by filling the form below or by emailing sexygirl@happysexyyou.com